Get Deeper

I've never been particularly good at staying in one lane. Over the years I've studied in the UK, worked across technology, design, and the arts, and collected enough hobbies to make introductions unnecessarily complicated.

I prefer to think of it as having broad interests. Companionship sits alongside my other ventures, though if I'm honest, it combines many of my favourite things in one place: meeting fascinating people, hearing stories I would never otherwise encounter, dressing up for beautiful dinners, and occasionally finding myself in wonderfully unexpected situations.

And the more intimate hours? Those tend to take care of themselves.

As you can probably tell, I'm a romantic drawn to experiences. What I enjoy most is discovering a place through someone else's eyes.

A dinner is always a lovely place to start, though I'm equally happy wandering through an exhibition, discovering a hidden jazz bar, attending a workshop, or following a spontaneous recommendation that neither of us had planned on. I've found that the most memorable evenings are usually the ones that leave a little room for surprise, and I also love creating small surprises along the way.

However, I prefer our first introduction to feel unhurried, which is why I ask for a minimum of two hours. In my experience, the most interesting conversations tend to begin just as people stop trying to make a first impression.

I'd want to know what you've been reading lately, or even better, what you didn't finish.

I have a habit of reading several books at once and abandoning them halfway through, only to rediscover them months later when a particular question finds its way back into my life. Lately, I've found myself fascinated by the relationship between technology and humanity. The strange ways the tools we create end up reshaping how we love, connect, desire, and understand ourselves.

But enough about my rabbit holes. Tell me something you've become obsessed with recently.

I do love this part! I've accumulated a collection of dresses and beautiful things that don't get nearly enough opportunities to leave the wardrobe. If there's something you'd particularly love to see, or a certain mood you have in mind for the evening, I'm always happy to hear your ideas.

And if your love language happens to involve thoughtful gifts, beautiful experiences, or indulging someone you adore spending time with... Well, I certainly wouldn't object.